So how does one process ending a 14 year relationship. (Married for 8 of those years) when you find out your husband had pedophile tendencies.
I came into this relationship with three daughters. He had a daughter and a son. I have spent the last 14 years thinking he was a really great guy only to find the most horrific searches and pictures on his phone. Thankfully he never touched my girls and was actually a decent father to them. I am so confused, devastated, broken. He has admitted it goes back to before we were even married. Yet he still married me and wanted the last 14 years of my life. Made me feel unattractive and unwanted because he was unable to get an erection with an adult woman. So any advice in processing this and getting on with my life would be greatly appreciated.
I came into this relationship with three daughters. He had a daughter and a son. I have spent the last 14 years thinking he was a really great guy only to find the most horrific searches and pictures on his phone. Thankfully he never touched my girls and was actually a decent father to them. I am so confused, devastated, broken. He has admitted it goes back to before we were even married. Yet he still married me and wanted the last 14 years of my life. Made me feel unattractive and unwanted because he was unable to get an erection with an adult woman. So any advice in processing this and getting on with my life would be greatly appreciated.
Statistics: Posted by Kerrbear2001 — Tue Feb 20, 2024 7:37 am — Replies 0 — Views 28